=Equality=

This is an on going research paper on Equality changing as time changes
=Equality=

by

Russell R Ellis

Being equal is balancing the scales of Justice so we are all treated equal, no dropping a extra right for one group. To remain equal we must recount the pebbles of rights over and over again ever time we need to add a right, to go all the way back and re-balance or readjust the old laws to fit in with the new ones being added. Many laws created to give us rights are now judged to be wrong, so must be adjusted to fit into the laws of today. Far to many today want to live in the days, like the days of slavery and that must be be changed by laws making those days illegal to live in today, or the days women quit Waring long johns they had to swim in. As research changed laws had to change and this is what we are realizing for the first time in history. Our Constitution called for the updating of our laws to make sure the we just, or constitutional, or legal laws, that could not with any excuse cause any discrimination, "with justice and freedom for all."

Most important of all, LIFE LIBERTY AND JUSTICE FOR ALL, means being responsible for your own actions. The fox wouldn't eat the Bunny if it were not there to be caught and eaten. We cause most things that happens to us because we ignore the Constitution. Touching isn't against the law, so why are we accusing by slander and libel for something that is not a crime, nor would anyone ant it to be a law or we all would be arrested and punished, because it is not only normal, but we can say no. Be responsible again folks, or lose what you have. Hurting each other over things you think about doing to others all the time, is just as bad as doing them, and you don't want to be an accused over nitpicking.

I will be a little slow on this paper as my library is upstairs, and I can't get up there because of my health. So I will be limited to the computers and the downstairs books. The reasons this is so important is everything involving harassment involves everything related to it.

This part will be on Sexual Equality, and I will begin with a few words to help understand the different ways Men and women think and do things related to sex.
 I am what is called Asexual I have no urges to have sex, at all. Mine problems are related to old injury's when my sex organ was severed long ago.

Transgender — Someone who identifies as a gender other than what they were assigned at birth.

 Dominance and Submission — A set of sexual behaviors, customs, and rituals where one person has control over the other. Fifty Shades of whips, clamps and anal beads.

Foreplay — Sexual activities for arousal prior intercourse.
Hymen — A membrane at the entrance to a woman's vagina. This membrane can break or tear during first intercourse, using a tampon, while riding a bike or you can just be born without one. Often referred to as the “cherry."

Erogenous zones — Areas of the body that respond to sexual stimulation. In episode 4.11 (“The One with Phoebe’s Uterus”) of Friends, Monica’s explains there are “SEVEN! SEVEN! SEVEN!” main erogenous zones. They are actually all over the body; some are just more sensitive than others.

Blue balls is slang^[1] for the condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain,^[2] caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation.^[3] The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916.^[4] Some urologists call this condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced by all males.

Sexual Harassment

What becomes harassment must be be what both party's believe is sexual harassment, because to say some can touch and some can't is of course discrimination, unless it is considered sexual area, in public such as breasts, butt, or groin. Yet if a man can touch it, neither can a woman, because of the coming out of the closet Gay community, and there coming under the same laws we have to Obey.

Both of these are clearly suggestive to a man, and of course not to women, unless they are gay, then they get as turned on. The sensations men feel, by sight are softness, ease of access, genital squeezing, and wetness. all these thing cause an erection that stays until exposure is gone.

No one should have to run to a bathroom to masturbate just to be free of a throbbing, cramping sex organ.

The changes in what sexual harassment is, are changing constantly, and at many times one sex or the other will go overboard dropping more pebbles into the scales then they deserved, causing many to be hurt, even imprisoned because of it all.

 How we see each other is different and the feelings are very different in Men and women. Women don't like being touched because it is seen by them as teasing foreplay, a sexual attempt to seduce them, men on the other hand love to be touched or praised by others and even more so, by women. But they don't like being teased, by a women who suggest "I want it" when they don't, just to be mean. For a man to be tease to think he has a chance is like touching a woman's clitoris, without her wanting it.  Is it a duck or a rabbit the drawing says, that's how much men and women know about each other and because of it we are forcing each other to give up our rights to please each other. so please be careful, or we will end up contained like animals in a cage.

 Now we seem to judge men and women as if they are the same in every way. But they are very different, some men are gay and like sex with other men, some women are gay and like sex with other women, but this isn't the end, gay men are divided, some are see themselves as women wanting a man, and others see themselves as a man wanting a man. Gay women also have women who are more man then women, who want sex with women. Yes just like us straight people, are even more different then that. The gay man who is like a woman will be competing with women for a man, and Gay woman who have the same feelings as a man will be competing for the women and many times we are tricked by Gays to think women are bad or men are bad, by Gays trying to eliminate the opposite sex from the competition. Gays will fight back just like the Straights, using even feminism as a tool to get the job done. The straights differ also, there is a left and right also and the right is anti Gay and fight Constantly to get rid of the Gay competition. So we have to be careful, the people we think are attacking us, may be just others of our sex competing sexually, even in Politics. perhaps even more-so.

Now are these Offensive? For men all women should be wondering around like this or naked, except there wife, but should also be as willing as they look. Men can only wonder what a woman's feelings are of the man in the photo. Society is beginning to except a woman's right to dress like this, but not a mans. Why? That is not equal. And why do women blame there mates for having sex with a naked woman, playing with his sexual weakness and not the woman for being naked for him. So the search of what is offensive has to begin here.



As I said before men like being touched even by men except most times not there balls by another man, but most won't report another for it, maybe gripe a little or laugh it off as grab-ass. But a woman touching him, that's is "I really like you guy, Dam." The more touchy they better, she's becoming my secret pet. I wrote a piece some time ago on when in Korea in 1963, hookers came into a bar and sat next to men and would first rub the thy, then grab the, well, you know what. Most men couldn't resist, even the best of married men fell. Of course most wed never returned and admitted it to wifey. But not all touching is sexual, yet sexual it the touchy who need mental health treatment. If it turns on a women, then that point is sexual, and you can always say no, then if he doesn't the report them. But no one wants to work with a touchy woman, yelling at everyone touching her. If you smell good then don't blame someone smelling you, if you look good then don't blame someone staring at you, we have that right to tough, feel, smell, and look as long as we don't get fresh or nasty about it or go to far.